So you’ve had a great first date, and want to continue to see where this may lead. Here are some simple tips to leave a lasting impression and increase your chances of a second date.
The 2 Day Rule
If you plan on a second date, make sure you call in two days. This amount of time is perfect. Calling the day after will make you seem to eager, and waiting for three days may show your date that you aren’t interested. Two days seems to be the perfect number.
Don’t Text
Texts and emails are a part of our daily life, as they make communication simple. However, it’s not perfect. First, you have no way of knowing if the recipient received the message if you don’t get a response, and secondly, your voice can’t portray emotions with electronic communication. Stick with a phone call.
Have A Plan
Using information you got from the first date, be specific about what you are thinking for the second date. If your date mentioned how much they enjoy Jazz, be clear when asking for the second date that you were thinking about going to a jazz club. This will make you seem confident, and will eliminate any awkwardness if your date thinks you are just going to drive around aimlessly. The second date is not a good time to try to surprise them.
Rejection Happens
If you don’t get a call back regarding the second date, don’t call over and over again. You can wait a few days and call again, but beyond that just let it go. Also don’t take it personally. Assess the first date to find areas you can improve on with the next person.
